Yes to those who still unsure or have not heard anything about the PinkDot, it is an annul event held at hong lim park where people come together regardless of their sexuality(be it they are straight, bisexuals, gay, transgender and the questioning) supporting the freedom to love. To be honest I have never attend such an event before ever in my life(didnt expect whats the environment like and what it will turn out to be).
SG PinkDot 2014 is coming in 10 days time and yeah im not sure if im looking forward to it enthusiastically or not since I want to come for it so badly but at the same time, I have something to attend to aswell. Im guessing im going there alone if im going for the pinkdot.
So what are my opinions about the LGBTQ as a whole? Hmm to me , i cant force people and telling people around that hey u cant love that person just because that person of the same gender as you. I mean in my point of view, loving someone of the same gender is completely nothing round. As in its really unfair to the non straight people telling them that u know what they did is wrong and its against the religion that kind of things bla bla bla.
I think what most importantly is what kind of activities that you guys as a couple is involved in. I mean i want to have a healthy relationship whereby me and my partner will be so open and will communicate things out and will never hide anything between the two of us. With that, it will built up yr trust about yr partner and there you will feel less paranoid if yr partner is cheating on u or whatsoever u call it. Hmm im guessing for a relationship to work out, communication is the key followed by developing trust about yr partner and just accept each other flaws(we are humans, full of imperfections-even robot makes mistake yo-GET THE POINT OF WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY HERE?) . Just ask yourself if you are in relationship whether you are happy with yr partner. If your answer is yes then its a good sign but well if it turns out to be the other way round, im guessing more bonding session is required to get to know yr partner.
If the reason behind the unhappiness for yr partner comes from you (meaning yr partner says that she or he doesnt feel happy when he or she is with u), then im guessing for the both benefit of you, it will be good to go for separate ways. Im not trying to say to take the easiest way out but well at the first place, why get into a relationship when you fall for someone who isnt yr compatible. I mean this kind of thing there isnt a need for rush. If u r having a crush on someone, just take the time to know the person.Give yourself some more time to really know whether he or she really suits u or not. Hmm if your crush seems uninterested or is just avoiding you, im guessing you should pay attention to all those hints and signs and yeah MOVE ON for FUCK SAKE. hahah I mean its okay to just be friends and nothing more. Set your own boundaries.
Just one piece of advice that i received from a stranger is that DO NOT BELIEVE AT SOMEONE DURING YOUR FIRST MET. I got me thinking real hard what he meant by those words and sooner i realised that dont trust people way way too easily. It is because people might take advantage of your weaknesses and go overboard and push you over the limit. So as for now, those words really struck me in my head and will remember not to believe at the person u just met so easily.
I want to believe that people in this world is all good but apparently, this world isnt all sugar, isnt all sweet.
Theres evil people out there just that they didnt show their dark side yet so yeah just be extra careful when you place your trust at people. Do it at the right time, right place.
Speaking of my sexuality, Im dead sick and tired of using gay chat app since most of the user there is looking for sex. Am still not out yet,still figuring whats my orientation is. Its like one moment im so into guys, one moment im so into girls, the next moment, im into both.HAHA wonder what is my actual orientation. Gay curious?straight? Bi ? Bi curious? Straight acting? Discreet straightacting? discreet bi curious ? etc etc the labels lgbt have on us.
Yeah just remember what i mention earlier , not to trust people so easily. That applies to hear, dont trust everything what you have read about me or my previous post 100%. Im just saying. Hhaha
Till then,
Potato:)
